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'I wish I could have him back'
Family, friends mourn boy who drowned in pool
By Lolly Bowean | Tribune staff reporter
July 20, 2007
On a typical warm summer day, Laurel Lane in Hazel Crest pulses with activity: children riding their bicycles, playing tag, hopscotch and other games, running and jumping down the sidewalks and street.
But on Thursday, the day after a 12-year-old boy drowned in the deep end of a private, fenced-off pool, the block was silent. No children came out to play, especially not the boys who were with
Jamar Garrett when he drowned.
"The younger kids are shook up," said Armond Brown, Jamar's 17-year-old brother. "They wish they could have done more. They're blaming themselves."
Jamar, who lived in the 3300 block of Laurel Lane, was found unresponsive Wednesday at the bottom of the 12-foot-deep end of the pool in Stone Bridge Condominium Complex. The boy and eight to 10 of his friends hopped the 5-foot fence around 5 p.m. to get to the pool. The boys had been swimming for only a few minutes when they noticed Jamar at the bottom.
Paramedics and staff at Advocate South Suburban Hospital tried to revive the boy, but he was pronounced dead shortly before 6 p.m.
His mother, Rachel Brown, was at home Thursday, surrounded by family, trying to make sense of her son's death. Almost every day, Jamar and his younger brother, Rashaun Garrett, would take off on their bikes and join a group of neighborhood boys, she said. This was the first summer she let them roam freely, but she kept tabs with a cell phone.
She spoke to Jamar about 5 p.m., and he said he was at the Dollar Store, which is just a short distance from the private pool. When she tried to call him a few minutes later, there was no answer.
Then another child called her and said Jamar was in trouble.
"I was hysterical," she said. When Brown made it to the pool, a mile from her home, she saw paramedics taking Jamar away on a stretcher.
"His body was limp," she said. "I hollered his name. He didn't move."
To some, Jamar's death highlighted the lack of public pools and recreation options for children in some communities. Many of the local pools belong to private organizations, and children have to pay a fee to swim.
In Hazel Crest, the Park District operates a pool, but it has been closed because of structural problems, said Village Manager Robert Palmer. Hazel Crest officials visited with Brown to offer their sympathy.
"We're all sorry to hear of this tragedy," he said. "I don't know if I can remember the last time something like this has happened. It's very upsetting."
Melvina Archie's two sons were with Jamar when he died, she said. This was the first time they hopped the fence to swim in that private pool, she said, but it's not the first time they've longed to have a way to cool off on steamy days.
"Out here there is nothing for the public at all," she said. "There's no place they can play ball or tennis or nothing."
She said most of the parents let their boys spend hours riding their bikes and visiting neighboring suburbs, because there is not much else for them to do.
"When they asked to leave [on their bikes], I started not to let them go. But they started to whine and pout, and there's nothing else for them to do."
When Kevin and Kendall Archie came home Wednesday night, hours before their curfew, behaving withdrawn, Melvina Archie said she knew something had gone wrong. That's when they told her Jamar drowned.
"We just wanted to go swimming," said Kendall, 13. "We thought he was playing. We wondered how he could stay underwater so long."
The boys tried to dive in and help him, but couldn't, Kevin said.
"It was too deep," he said.
The experience has shaken her sons, Melvina Archie said.
"They wouldn't sleep," she said. "There's a lonely feeling in the air. This is not a normal day. It's a sad one."
At Rachel Brown's house, she pulled out photos and told stories to remember her son. Jamar was about to turn 13 and was looking forward to 8th grade, Brown said. He was a busy child, who was tall for his age and was fascinated with how big he was growing. Her son would give her a hug every day, but she believes he liked to hear her fuss.
"For them to jump the fence. ... I don't know what they were thinking," she said. "They never indicated they wanted to go swimming. They know I would have taken them if they wanted to go."
Brown and her family struggled with their emotions. They cried and comforted each other and said they were leaning on their religious faith.
Armond Brown said that almost every day this summer he sat down with his little brother to talk or play video games. Now, he's glad he did.
"I miss him already," he said, choking back tears. "I wish I could have him back."